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Everyone Dances, So Let’s Choreograph Together

Written by Zoe Weil | 2 Comments | Published on October 15, 2013 | Filed under Humane Connection
The content that follows was originally published on the Institute for Humane Education website at http://humaneeducation.org/blog/2013/10/15/dances-lets-choreograph/
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iStock_000002259177MediumInternet phenom Matt Harding has made a couple of viral videos depicting himself dancing around the world. In this one we see Matt dancing with people from war-torn countries, with people who live under repressive regimes, and with people who live in relative freedom and affluence. In every scene, no matter the setting, they are dancing a choreographed dance and smiling.

During the past few weeks in the United States, as our government has partially shut down and we face a potential default, it’s been easy to despair about our capacity to both get along and solve our challenges. We seem trapped in polarized and polarizing dialogue, vitriol and name-calling, and a pervasive lack of critical and creative thinking. We seem unable to choreograph solutions to our persistent problems.

We often act like we know what we are talking about as we share our strongly felt opinions, but sometimes we don’t. Late-night TV host Jimmy Kimmel demonstrated this when his camera crew interviewed people on Hollywood Boulevard, asking them which they preferred, Obamacare or the Affordable Care Act (two names for the same thing). The responses were dismaying. How can we solve our problems when we are so deeply unaware?

Yet, even as we give opinions and advice on matters beyond our knowledge, we also all dance together joyfully and collaboratively. We know how to get along, even with strangers. After all, Matt Harding is a stranger everywhere he goes. And this gives me hope.

An image popped into my head as I watched Matt’s video: children taught to think critically and creatively as a sort of joyful, exciting dance of listening, researching, reflecting and contributing; children taught that we can choreograph beautiful things by working together and have our different contributions, the solos and duets and trios, that add to the whole and make it even richer, more nuanced, better.

If we can dance together, surely we can generate solutions together. Let’s teach our children to choreograph healthier, more functional, more just and peaceful societal systems. And when they meet a seemingly insurmountable impasse, let’s invite them to dance, literally, to smile, shake off what’s stuck and choreograph some more.

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About Zoe Weil

Zoe is the co-founder and president of the Institute for Humane Education She's the author of several books, including Most Good, Least Harm; Above All, Be Kind; and The Power and Promise of Humane Education. See her TEDx talk, "The World Becomes What You Teach": http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t5HEV96dIuY

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This is so absolutely on target, Zoe. We struggle as a polarized community, country, world. Our interdependence is what ultimately binds us and will be the key to developing a clear path toward a shared future. Whether it’s figuring out how to engage in a productive discussion about global warming, gun control or health care, educating those who are so gravely disinformed and follow blindly without conscience, is a task we must tackle together. Kids are taught early that sharing is a complicated dance, but one they must do to move forward. As you so eloquently say, it’s time for us to start dancing.

Zoe Weil says:

Thanks so much Ronnie. Glad my post was meaningful to you. Appreciate the comment.